You and your friends are having "silent treatment" sort of thing and you want to make it up for them. Do you want them to forgive you , but you don't know how?
Steps
- 1Go talk to your friends. Ask their parents where they might be and got there. Or if you know where they might be, go there. People go places when they are sad or mad about something.
- 2If you see your friend, get him/her/them alone. Tell him/her/them that what you did that made him hate you, was wrong. Although it might not be your fault, still apologize. It shouldn't matter whether it was your fault that you gossiped about him/her/them or that a crush liked them.
- 3Show him/her/them sincere appreciation of all those things he/she/they did as a friend(s). Buy them a gift, take them out shopping, tell them that they look nice, etc. Do something that you think will be nice enough of them to ease their hatred on you.
- 4Say you're sorry. The general point is to bring back his/her/their sense of pride and importance. Remember that he/she/they hates you because he/she/they blames you for his/her/their problems. Try to shift that hatred from you to the real problem.
Tips
- Don't call, email or send anything of communication to them. They might not answer back.
- Talk to one friend at a time. It takes time until all of your friends forgive you.
- Recognize what you did was wrong and tell him/her/them that. It'll make you AND him/her/them feel better once you've done it.
Warnings
- Do not argue with them.
- Also try not to shout at them.
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